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Advent – A Season of Joy

Experience abundant Christmas joy this Advent season – the kind that is deeper than presents and even picture-perfect family time.

When I was a child, I remember the sheer elation I felt when I ran into our living room and saw a brand new GameBoy sitting underneath my stocking on Christmas morning.

I’ve always been the “stuff” person in our family – begging to open presents early, making a wishlist a mile long, and flipping through the Toys R Us catalog with a heart full of longing.

As I got older, my desire for stuff shifted from toys to kitchen accessories, but I still felt a thrill opening up new and shiny things on Christmas morning.

And then, gradually, something shifted.

It was kind of like that scene from The Grinch when he had that moment of realization that everything he believed to be true about Christmas was just a cheap imitation.

It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes or bags…Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before. What if Christmas, he thought, doesn’t come from a store. What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.”

I, much more slowly than the instantaneous transformation of the Grinch, shifted my focus away from the presents and onto the people.

I focused on experiences – building gingerbread houses with kiddos, going caroling with friends, and baking cookies with loved ones – all of the things a good cheesy Christmas movie is made of.

And, it was happy alright!

But every single year that I lean into the joy of Christmas, I’ve been able to take that Christmas joy to a whole new level.

A level that isn’t dependent on people, experiences, or things at all.

I still enjoy and appreciate all of those things, but they are no longer the source of my joy.

My pastor describes those things as the “dim glow” of the goodness of Christ. The Christmas lights, the presents, the parties…they all show us glimmers of the joy of Christ, but the fullness of Christ is really like the blinding brightness of the sun, making those Christmas lights seem so dim in comparison.

How to Grow In Joy This Christmas Time: 

Advent – A Season of Joy : So Very Blessed - Experience abundant Christmas joy this advent season, the kind that is deeper than presents and picture-perfect family time.

Draw Nearer to God

“Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy.” – 1 Peter 1:8

God is the only source of joy.

That seems like it should be obvious (He is the “reason for the season”, after all), but it took me years to really start to grasp that idea.

When I was craving the stuff, I was expecting those things to add to my life and better it in some way.

When I was focusing on the experiences, I wanted to create Instagram-worthy moments of smiles and warmth and laughter.

When I started seeing all of those things as blessings from Him, sign posts that point me toward Him, it brought a depth to my joy that I’m not even sure I can describe in words.

Seeing all of those happy Christmasy things as gifts from a God who loves me so much that He sent His one and only Son to a world of darkness continues to bring new depths of joy as I realize how personal it is to me.

He is the source of all good things.

Spending time with Him, learning more about His character and His faithfulness through His Word, and seeing the world and all of the people in it through “faith eyes” changes everything.

It brings light to the darkness and reorders my priorities from falling in love with the creation (GameBoys, KitchenAid mixers, and gingerbread houses) to falling in love with the Creator.

Drawing nearer to Jesus naturally brings more joy into your life. It’s more than just knowing about Him, it’s abiding in Him that brings perfect joy.

Give More

“In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity.” – 2 Corinthians 8:2

Having a heart of generosity fuels joy.

In our human reasoning, we think that when we give, it means we have less of something. We have less money, less candy, less stuff for ourselves. And, on the surface level, maybe that’s true! There is absolutely an element of sacrifice to generosity.

But we don’t serve a surface-level God. He breaks through our logical limitations and tells us that when we give, we are the ones who are blessed, not just the recipient! I’m not just talking about physical, or monetary things either.

There’s a heart-set behind generosity.

It’s about sharing what God has given you with others from a place of love, not obligation. It’s not about expecting something back in return (even a happy reaction from the person you give to!).

Whether you are giving your time, your talents, or your money, when you humbly offer the things you have to someone else, it brings joy and it blesses you.

Adjust Your Expectations

“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” – Romans 12:12

The joy that Christ brought to the world is unconditional.

  • You don’t have to wait until that difficult season in your life is over.
  • You don’t have to get the perfect Christmas gift before you can feel joy.
  • You don’t have to wait until your kids are delightfully obedient.
  • You don’t have to have the perfect Christmas tree (thank you, Charlie Brown, for that lesson!), a pile of beautifully wrapped gifts, or a flawless picture on your Christmas card.

The only prerequisite for joy is a relationship with God.

When the dog breaks your favorite ornament, your wrapping job is lumpy, and the Christmas cookies burn, feel the disappointment and then point yourself back to the real Source of your joy.

It gives you and the people in your life the freedom to be perfectly imperfect and still experience abundant joy this holiday season.

May the Lord bring you abundant joy this Advent season as He draws you nearer and nearer to Himself.

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Tuesday 13th of December 2016

I love this post. You are right its all about God not the experiences or stuff so much. I really enjoyed your writing style and movie references.


Tuesday 20th of December 2016

Thank you so much, Ailie (and what an awesome name, by the way)!


Monday 12th of December 2016

I love this, I actually had the same kind of switch happen to me and I'm trying to recall WHY or WHEN that happened. I don't know. There was definitely a moment though that Christmas stopped being about the presents. I would like to think that's just a part of growing up but unfortunately, I don't think that's it. We had a few rough Christmases and it's been different ever since. Family has become way more important than presents, that's all the joy I need!


Tuesday 20th of December 2016

Isn't it interesting how that Christmas joy just somehow shifts? The joy when I was into presents was so exciting, but now it's more of a deep, peaceful mindset. It's so hard to put into words! Wishing you a family-filled merry Christmas, Leah!

Lauren C. Moye

Monday 12th of December 2016

What a sweet post! Not gonna lie - you drew me in with the Gameboy reference. Mine also came underneath a stocking. :) But the points about how you grew more in joy are also great. I loved the sections on "Give More" and "Adjust Your Expecations". Pinning!


Tuesday 20th of December 2016

Haha! Oh man, that was such a happy Christmas morning! And I didn't even mention that me and my sister both got one, so we got to link up to play Tetris and Dr. Mario. Oh, the good old days! Thank you so much for sharing my post, Lauren! Merry Christmas!


Monday 12th of December 2016

I needed this focus on joy today, and love any reminder to seek our true source of joy in this crazy season!


Tuesday 20th of December 2016

I'm so glad it encouraged you, Ashley! I always write these posts just as much as reminders for myself. ;-) Wishing you a merry and blessed Christmas!


Monday 12th of December 2016



Tuesday 20th of December 2016

That's so wonderful of you to share! Thank you!